"Don't go changing to try to please me, you never let me down before." - Billy Joel

Society has a way of tricking people into thinking they are less than they are. Seeing magazines and movies cause you to second guess who they are and who is accepted by the people around them. In relationships, a lot of the time people run into the problem when they feel the need to change to keep a relationship alive. If you were yourself in the beginning of he relationship you should be yourself to see it end (either in a breakup or death). If your man like blondes and you have brown hair, don't jump on the idea of bleaching your hair to please him. That won't win his heart, it will win a temporary spot in bed. A man would much rather you embrace the look and personality you have, because thats who he's dating... not a mail order girlfriend.