"You do what you do and you pay for your sins and there's no such thing as what might have been." - Tim McGraw

Its so easy to look at the past and think about what might have or could have been, but its pointless. All you have is the present and if you waste it looking at the past... then you have made a mess of your preset as well. Whats done is done and all you can do is move on from there. It may take a while to move far enough from a situation where you can't feel its presents anymore, but you will. When you were little and broke your mother's favorite vase or glass... you wish you hadn't thrown that ball and were punished for a week, but how many times do you think about that day now? never. What seems so big and important at the time can disappear as quickly as the wind.